The past 2 months have been incredible. At 36, I find myself a mom again. This time has been completely different than when I was just a young 20 years old. I'm an entirely different person. The experiences and spiritual journey have transformed me. I continue to grow daily with the help of my children.
There is a common saying: children don't come with manuals. While that's true, you can find a ton of books on the subject of parenting. Most books emphasize the importance of speaking to your baby. Language is crucial, they say. Speak to your baby and engage him/her. And while this is true and especially important, the moments of silence between my daughter and I have been transcendental for me.
In the moments of quiet and stillness shared with my daughter in my arms, she will look up at me and we will stare at each other for minutes at a time. She inspects all the features of my face and smiles this sweet, calm smile that brings life full circle.
The language of love goes beyond words. In these moments, my heart skips a beat and I feel so much love for her and for the moment, that tears come to my eyes. We are telling each other we love each other without having to say the words.
Today, take a moment to be still and find the love that exists all around you. Find the place where words are not necessary and live there.
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